Precious moments in Life

White Kingdom

The snow glows white on the mountain tonight
Not a footprint to be seen.
A kingdom of isolation, and it looks like I’m the Queen….bla.bla..Let it go.. Let it go.. Ini lagu yang my nieces suka nyanyiin..gue jd ngebayangin snow itu kek apa ya rasanya.. Maklum Indo ga ada snow..

Dan hal inilah yang membuat gue memutuskan adventurous holiday ke “white kingdom” city ~ Harbin bulan January 2018 kemarin.

Ini pun rada mendadak karena dilema “go or not go”. Seminggu sebelum sidang skripsi, pas uda rada mantep bakal lolos, baru kita kebut booking train, hotel, tour ke 雪乡 snow city. Plus lagi butuh belanja barang-barang keperluan yang harus dibawa: sepatu, jaket, penghangat tangan dan kaki 保暖贴, kamera, kaos kaki en soon en soon. Pokoknya belanjanya abis 1000 RMB 😰 Dan untuk expenses selama perjalanan 4 hari 3 malam itu sekitar 1800 RMB/orang. Itu uda termasuk 700 tour ke snowtown, 200 tiket masuk ke 冰雪大世界 (tiket harga pelajar), tiket wisata tempat lain sekitar 70, hotel 85, tiket kereta PP 360, makan 100, taksi 70, sisanya untuk oleh2.

Kita berangkat dari Shijiazhuang nae train yang biasa (butuh 13 jam lebih), empit-empitan, banyak yang berdiri pula, tidur pun ga bakalan nyenyak soalnya disenggol-senggol mulu. Yang berangkat kita berempat cewe-cewe jagoan (gue, fini, metta, nella). Tapi pas di train ketemu rombongan stella and kurcil2 nya. Kita pisah jalan disana. Kita selesai sidang tgl 18, trus berangkat ke harbinnya tgl 21, sampe nya tanggal 22, then tanggal 25 balik, sampenya tanggal 26.

Sampe Harbin jam 7 an pagi, langsung deh meluncur ke Hotel, untung kita pas berempat bisa 1 taksi, soalnya taksi sana ga akan mau angkut lima orang. Hotelnya kita dapat rekomendasi dari Hwe Liem, murah loh 85RMB seorang untuk 2 hari, tapi agak turun ke bawah kayak basement gitu, jadi semua kamar ga berjendela. Kita sih budget travelling, pikirnya just for sleep aja, ga perlu yang mewah. Tapi review hotelnya quite good kok, auntienya ramah.

Hari pertama nyampe kita langsung telusuri zhongyang street 中央大街, dan 素菲亚教堂,dan di zhongyang street ada penjual es krim yang wajib disamperin. Loh dingin gitu masi makan es krim? Iyaaaaa.. Di cuaca -27 derajat makan es krim itu asikk, dijamin es krimnya ga bakalan lumer.. Wkwkwk..

Itulah hari pertama kita.. Lelah ya setelah perjalanan 14 jam, perubahan suhu dari pas dishijiazhuang -3 derajat jadi turun drastis ke -27 derajat, dan kalo malam hari bisa sampe -35 derajat, plus jalan seharian.. Malam tidur pulas deh.. Padahal gue uda takut ketemu ranjang baru susah bobo.. Oh ya, senjata untuk badan fit selama perjalanan ini kita selalu konsumsi Tolak Angin.. (bukan promosi loh 😄, tapi emang ampuh).

Hari kedua kita uda berbekal senjata ampuh, sebelum keluar kamar persiapan kita bisa 30 menit. Ngapain aja tuh? Hahaha.. Pake baju aja 4 lapis:longjohn extrawarm uniqlo, sweater, jaket bulu angsa pendek, jaket panjang selutut, untuk bawahan pakai longjohn dan celana bulu angsa羽绒裤, then buat kaki…Tipsnya adalah membuat kaki sehangat mungkin maka badan akan hangat. Ini important ya… Jangan sampe hipotermia. Plus lagi yang mesti dipake: topi, masker, syal, penutup telinga.

Hari kedua kita meluncur ke 中华巴洛克, tempat ini gratis, jalanannya ada artnya gitu, abis itu kita langsung naik taksi ke 俄罗斯风情小镇 dan 太阳岛,tapi pas 太阳岛 uda ga masuk ke dalam, abis dari sana kita ke sungai yang airnya uda membeku semua, merasakan gimana “berjalan diatas air”.. Then karena kita nguber waktu malam mo ke 冰雪大世界 jadi kita balik hotel dulu istirahat bentar.

Hari ketiga kita book tour ke snow city, di snow city nginap semalam. Jd hari ketiga pagi-pagi kita uda naik taksi nyamperin ke meeting point, kita book tournya dari 马蜂窝, oh ya hati2 aja, tour disana pilih nya yang standard aja, ga usa yang upgrade2. Kita pilihnya yang upgrade karena dijanjiin dapat air panas selama perjalanan dan dapat makanan local delight 10 macem (3x). Tapi agak kecewa karena uda bayar harga upgrade pun, fasilitas yang didapat cuma yang biasa. Jadi next time uda tau lah, cukup yang biasa aja.. Itu pun kita dioper2 terus bus nya, karena perjalanan ke snow city butuh 5-6 jam, dan karena kita tour yang 2 hari 1 malam perjalanan pulang perginya digabung dengan tour lain yang 4 hari 3 malam, jadi sampe area tertentu kita diturunin untuk ganti bus lain karena tour yang 4D3N itu mau ke arah main ski, kita beda arah.

Sepanjang jalan itu amazing banget, sejauh mata memandang semua black and white, beda banget sama dunia warna-warni yang selama ini kita liat.. But it’s so beautiful…

In short, kita sampe juga di snowcity jam 2 siang, disana kita dijemput oleh local guide kita.

Sampe di tempat penginapan yang notabene adalah rumah penduduk, kita sekamar 4 orang. Dan berhubung waktu lunch kita uda lewat, kita ga diserve 10 macam makanan lagi, tapi menciut jadi 1 macam doank yaitu dumpling 饺子,makanan khas orang utara.

Abis makan kita mulai berkeliling, attraction pertama kita adalah main ski, cuma kita ganti jadi pelosotan dengan ban… So excited, rasa meluncur dari atas dan pas melewati tikungan…rasa dingin yang menusuk pipi, sampe ke bulu mata yang jadi es… Di snow city lebih dingin karena sering kali berhembus angin kencang… Pipi kita semua merah2, asal jangan kelamaan karena bisa mati rasa dan bisa rusak kulitnya, ingat pakai pelembab. Jadi abis main 40 menit kita cepet2 masuk ke ruangan ganti yang ada penghangat.

 

Malamnya kita keliling 雪乡,liat 童话世界 dimana rumah2nya kek rumah kurcaci gitu, lampu warna-warni kayak di dunia fairy tale, abis itu nonton pertunjukan khas 东北二人传, ada nyanyi, berpantun, stand up komedy dan muka dipakein balon trus tiup balon pake hidung. Ini semua atraksi yang uda termasuk dari tour nya.

The next morning kita tetep puas2in keliling snowcity foto-foto, soalnya abis makan siang kita uda bakal balik ke city dan langsung ke train station balik ke shijiazhuang.

Oh ya, sedikit tips untuk foto-foto. Karena cuaca extreme gini, batere kamera dan hp ga akan bertahan lama, yang biasa bisa pakai 2-3jam, sekarang kalo dikeluarin terus, dalam waktu 30 menit aja uda bakalan drop. Kamera pun kalo bisa jangan bawa yang DSLR karena kalo sampe lensanya kedinginan trus pas masuk ruangan hangat jadinya berembun kita bakal nangis dayak (lensaa mahal bokk..). So kemarin itu kita beli kamera digital dan standby 3 batere cadangan. Ada 2 orang yang pegang kamera. Kita gantian foto. Karena anginnya dingin, begitu tangan kita di udara selama 1 menit aja uda mati rasa dan berasa ketusuk-tusuk. Jadi triknya, pasang pose dulu, abis itu jepret2 dan simpan lagi tangannya dan kameranya ke kantong jaket. Di dalam kantong jaket uda ditempelin penghangat. Itupun kita suka bandel lepasin sarung tangan karena kalo jepret foto pake sarung tangan itu susah. Kalo kamera uda pada drop baterenya, kita terpaksa pake hp. Itupun di belakang hp kita tempelin juga penghangat. Dan cuma bisa foto klik klik next person.. Klik klik next person.. Maksimum 10 detik lah.. Semua mesti serba cepat didunia ini kalo ga mau frozen.. 😂

At last.. Inilah foto kenang2an snowtown di pagi dan malam hari.. Entah kapan bisa kesini lagi..

Dan ditampilkan dikit makanan yang ada diharbin, disini banyak jamur kuping, blueberry dan buah yang mirip tomat tapi bukan tomat.. Entah apa namanya.. 😅

Perjalanan 4 hari 3 malam ini sungguh mengesankan. Bukan hanya mengenal belahan dunia lain, melihat dunia frozen dan seluruh keindahannya, tapi juga bisa belajar bagaimana survive di saat kondisi sulit dan tidak nyaman, bagaimana menghargai sinar matahari, perasaan akan setetes kehangatan dikala dingin menusuk..(yang sebenarnya ga hangat sama sekali, hanya sugesti aja kalo ada matahari pasti tomorrow will be better… 😂😂😄👍)

Goodbye snow.. The cold never bothered me anyway
It’s time to see what I can do
To test the limits and break through
No right, no wrong, no rules for me,
I’m free! Let it go..Let it go.. Lagu ini kembali terngiang-ngiang di kepalaku…❄❄❄⛄⛄

Peace

Blue Yena

终于…

After a long wait and go through a hard path, finally on June 14th 2018 I have completed my Bachelor of Arts in Teaching Chinese as Foreign Language. At my 37th, I’ve made it! For others maybe it’s very late.. But it’s better late than never.. Mom also come to HNU to attend my graduation ceremony. I am the first Bachelor in my family… Wish I can make my parents proud of me.

During the ceremony, I was chosen to represent the graduate to give a speech. I feel so honour… I will never forget this moment.

And… The most happiest is I can back to my family and ready to serve my country…

Actually this is not the end point, but instead it’s a beginning of my journey. I will not stop running till…

Here are some photos with people that support me these four years. Special thanks for my teacher Qiu Laoshi, Wang Laoshi, He Laoshi, all my teachers, all my friends, roommate and soon. Maybe I cannot mention one by one, but all of you will always in my heart.

And latest update of my life nowadays, I am teaching Chinese language at P5.

Last but not least…

Happy Graduation to me and all my classmates! And welcome to the real life…

I am adding one of confucious Analect:

子曰:“温故而知新,可以为师矣”

Never stop learning…

Peace

Blue Yena

Little devil vs angel

Still fresh in my mind this little boy pertama kali datang ke rumah gue bulan May buat ngeles mandarin.. susahnya di suruh nulis.. dan nulisnya pun acak-acakan.. mesti disogok permen pula.. Tabiatnya jelek dan kalo lagi ga mau nulis, beneran ga mau.. my 1st impression was “oh my God..! This little devil yang susah diatur.. so wasting my time”

Trus ketabrak libur lama.. akhirnya bulan Juli kemarin nyokapnya minta les lagi, dan kali ini sesuai agreement gue yang ke rumah dia.

Still the same yaa.. the first week… the second week.. pas giliran dia les, pasti terulang drama yang sama which is crying and hysterical screaming “ga mau nulissss.. ” dan guling-guling di lantai.. 😬😩😰😱

Kalo kokonya sih no problem, masi bisa dihandle, tapi dedenya ini yang too much drama, ngebujukin aja bisa abis 1/2 jam.. lebih lama dari waktu ngelesnya.. fiuhhh.. 😅

After that, i used many ways to teach him mandarin without too much drama dan tangisan berdarah.. later on i found out he got problem in reading karena belum hapal alfabet.. pantes aja ngajarin pinyin mandarin dia ga bisa baca. Alhasil anaknya jadi stress dan ga mau belajar mandarin.

Luckily, the third week i found a solution. I use drawing and focus on Hanzi, no more pinyin. As long he can understand the meaning, can speak the correct pronunciation and get used to write step of hanzi, that’s it! that’s my goals!

Then miracle happened, the fourth week, nih anak jadi baik banget. Then i used another method which is read mandarin story book everytime start the lesson, let him play and study at the same time, sing a mandarin song, then draw many pictures for him to match with the chinese character. At the end of the lesson, i gave him sticker and homework.

Each of them have a wall of sticker. Koko di kanan, dede di kiri. Trus mereka compete sapa yg paling banyak.

Minggu-minggu berikutnya berlangsung damai, tentram and lots of fun. They like homework and nulis hanzinya makin rapi. Even the school teacher also write the progress in the weekly report. I am so happy. Mothernya jg kaget. Tapi syukurlah semua bisa terkendali.

Sangat disayangkan.. i am leaving soon, so today is my last day teaching them. He is my little angel now. So cute, funny and i’m gonna miss him, little Marvel and Kenzie. Hope we can meet again..

Love you,

Blue Yena

3 in 1

3 places in 1 day..

Bermula dari tanggal 20 Aug jam 12 teng kita berangkat ke The Breeze BSD untuk ketemu mimi.. untuk late birthday celebration, mimi treat us Jitlada Thai food. As usual when girls met, they talk a lot from A to Z.. so do we! Dari Jitlada pindah ke Jco.. dari jam 1 sampe jam 5.. dan ga lupa sambil foto-foto juga.. it’s quite a good weather that day..

From breeze, kita lewatin scientia gading, jadi skalian mampir ke tempat mami. Dia baru balik dari Lampung. Trus kita ke pergi makan kuetiaw di xinmei dan ke sms foto untuk visa dan makan di kulinernya. Makan es potong nyonya.. that’s it! Soalnya uda too full.. kuliner itu sebenarnya enak karena sejauh mata memandang semua makanan.. tapi sejauh mata memandang juga semua orang.. so walaupun kepengen makan ini ono, ngeliat antrian aja uda bikin males, belum lg ngantri beli voucher.. and kalo bole dibandingkan, sebenarnya makanan di kuliner lebih mahal dari harga yang originalnya.. ada plus minus lah.. lebih baik kita foto-foto ajah deh.. 😅

Keluar dari sms pun uda jam 20.30 lewat. Tapi berhubung kata mami tadi dia dari airport ngelewatin maze market, so kita langsung lanjutin ke Lantern Festival yang di maze. Sampe sana uda hampir jam 21.15 an, harga tiket malam sih 35rb, tapi kita pikir uda kemaleman untuk ngiterin sampe ke dalam, it’s quite a big area. So, kita foto2 di luarnya aja.. hehehe..

Oke that’s our story for today.. cape but happy.. that we can spend time together with friend and family.

Unforgetable memories!

Also want to thank mimi for this beautiful necklace.

Blue Yena

CNY 2017

Seems like I am very active to write blog these few days..

I am catching time to clear my “debts”. 😅

This story is about chinese new year 2017.

Mom came back for a month. If i haven’t told you before, we got fight and cold war for many months since May 2016 until end of year 2016. I stopped communicate with her. It’s because she treat me unjustly and wrongly blame me for something that i did not do. I try to explain but she won’t listen and keep cursing me, and told me that she won’t admit me as daughter anymore. Then what..!? After many months she found out the truth and she came to me. Although she didn’t say sorry (elder’s ego), but she started to call me.

I can forgive her, but need sometime to forget. I write on this blog just to remind myself if i become parent one day, please listen to children’s explanation before you judge. And say sorry to children is not a worst thing to do and i believe it won’t hurt the elder’s ego.

Ok, that’s already out of topic, we back to CNY story, so my mom came back for a month, we met up couple times, although still have feeling barrier, but we respect each other and things run well.

As usual ritual of CNY, we visited elders since we are the youngest in the family.

Also some CNY celebrations at SMB school and PCI. I have duties as MC, perform sanjuban and join the choir. This time CNY, the PCI lecturer made jiaozi (chinese dumpling) for students. In chinese tradition, eating jiaozi at new year is a must, means 吉利 (lucky, prosperous), because the shape of dumpling is looks like shoe-shaped gold (元宝 yuanbao).

Wealth is only one thing in life

Health and Happiness is everything

金钱买不到健康和快乐

新年快乐,事事顺利,万事如意!

Blue Yena

Last post! This was our born day story on April 2017. As usual, we have some celebrations with family and best friends.

This year birthday, I really touched because my cousin prepared cake for me, my grandma & godmom gave me a big red pocket blessing, and friends precious present. I was touched not because of the gift, but the attention and caring that shower me. I really thank God for placing them next to me.

It was also a sad day for Suri, because her pap passed away. Deep condolences! She came back for a week, and the last day before she went back to oz, we had lunch together at red bean.

This life is not eternal, just a road that we need to go through. Cherish every moments! Live happily and die without regret..

Wish that my life can be a blessing for others 🙏

Keep humble..

Be wise..

Stay positive..

Amien.

Blue Yena

Passed!

Every year I have my own studying target, and I push myself to reach that target.

This is how I keep my self on track. If not like that, I will slow down, relax and lost in the jungle.. hahaha.

You can say that I am too hard to myself. But this is what I learnt from experience. In the past, I am ‘too good’ to myself, always pamper myself and give up every time I feel the condition is not supporting. As the result, I can’t even finish my bachelor degree. So now, I must push myself very hard and keep moving forward although it’s a bit late. Better late then never, isn’t it?

Last June I took HSK 5 and i passed it with the score : 274 of 300. I am very proud of myself because within two years I can achieve it. Lucky is also playing a part, but studying with strategy and correct direction is the best way to reach your target.

Keep fighting! Next target is HSK 6!

Blue yena

Start counting days…

and i will keep counting the days until i come back..

Feeling campur aduk.. happy, excited, worry, ga tega ninggalin hubby and anak-anak murid.. tapi decided to be tough and the most important want to finish it as soon as possible. 9 months should be quite fast, right? 💪💪 加油!we sure still can keep in touch everyday, thanks to the advanced tech such as video call, internet, and all sosmed.

Kata hubby, don’t use too much feeling, because it’s hurt! Yeah bener juga sih, ini aja pas nulis kalo pikir bakal pisah for 9 months uda tears duluan.. 😭😢

But, we must be strong. I have started this road and i should complete it in order to make everything go smoothly in future, not go-round to zero again. I really appreciate the courage and continuous support that my hubby gives me. He knows me well. My passion for studying, my incomplete task that need to finish, our dreams, our family goals. Thank you honey! I’m sure will not let you down!

God, please keep us safe and altough we will be in different country, please protect our relationship so it’ll getting stronger and we can keep supporting each other and achieve our dreams together as a team!

There are some quotes that i wish can always remind us and make you out there that also face a same situation to have courages to sacrifice and support each other.

God be with us.. now and forever 🙏

Blue yena

Utang yang sempat terlupakan… story july-dec 2016!

Unbelievable, uda setaun berlalu.. pepatah China bilang:

光阴似箭 time flies like an arrow.

Jujur aja gue sendiri pun uda almost lupa apa aja yang terjadi taun 2016 2nd semester, untung aja ada foto-foto di facebook yang bisa remind.

Kita dapat 2 quite big project ngajar expat China & Taiwan untuk bulan juli-september sebanyak 3 kelas dan ada 1 kelas ngajar orang lokalnya mandarin. Tuhan selalu tau dan mencukupkan.. praise the Lord! Bersyukur bisa menambah jam terbang, nambah nominal di account dan juga nambahin temen-temen baru.

Bulan November 2016 uda anniversary kita yang ke 7. Whattt??!.. ga berasa banget.. hahaha.. rasanya masi kek pacaran, soalnya belum ada ekornya.. Dan ga ada perayaan khusus..hahaha.. ga romantis? Yeah, tiap hari kita juga makan-makan, jadi everyday have celebration deh 😂. Anyway, kita tetap bersyukur aja buat kesempatan yang dikasi, menikmati saat-saat berduaan.. Dan kita selalu meyakini “semua indah pada waktu Nya”

Last but not least, adalah waktu kebersamaan dengan keluarga dan ritual old and new bersama tetangga sekitar. Happy to be part of Ubud Kencana big family. Seperti taun-taun sebelumnya, old and new itu waktu kumpul-kumpul dengan neighbors. Di tengah kesibukan, mungkin biasanya cuma lempar senyum, skrg bisa ngobrol dan santai sejenak.

Tetap bersyukur walau langit tidak selalu biru..

Tetap bersyukur walau hujan dan badai menerpa..

Kuyakin selalu, Tuhan punya rencana indah buat setiap hamba-Nya.. aminn 🙏

Blue Yena

My 1st

As usual tradition untuk blogging di akhir dan awal taun. Here I am…

Dengan ini, saya nyatakan saya masi berhutang cerita pada blog ini untuk yang periode Jul-Dec 2016, gara-gara kemarin desember pas uda liburan ngejer2 film korea yang banyak tertinggal. Start with Fantastic, Goblin, Yong pal. Nonton sampe ga inget jam.. akhirnya ga sempet nyusun cerita jul-dec yg masi pending. Utang dulu yaa..

Today, i mo start cerita baru untuk 2017 ajaa.. anyway, Happy New Year 2017!

Berhubung hari ini 1st Day in 2017, gue mo ceritain my 1st di hari pertama ini:

1. This is my 1st post in 2017 

2. This is our 1st pic, posted on 01-01-2017 01:14 AM. Cerita new year eve nya nyusul yaa..


3. This is my first prayer, which i dedicated to my President, Mr Jokowi. Semoga bapak diberkati kesehatan dan kebijaksanaan dalam memimpin negara ini. 


4. This ini my 1st morning after misa di St. Helena. Today’s weather is very nice, also got beautiful cloud on top of the Church. God be with us.. 


5. This is my 1st resolution, diukir di paper cutting yang gue buat sejak beberapa hari lalu. Paper cut jd my new hobby selama liburan ini. “不到长城非好汉”, original meaningnya itu : One who fails to reach the Great Wall is not a hero. Tapi di balik itu ada arti yang menunjukkan keuletan untuk mencapai tujuan, karena kita tau great wall itu kan super panjang dan kalo mau daki perlu determination juga supaya ga halfway give up. Jadi gue angkat kalimat ini menjadi tema / resolusi 2017 gue. As a reminder supaya gue jangan give up until i reach my goal. Although i must go through many difficulties.


6. This is our dinner for today dan the 1st time we try Ichiban Sushi. Rasa oke banget, harga worth it untuk bento nya, cuma penampilan kurang. Hahaha.. but overall we quite satisfied.


7. Last but not least, hehehe ga penting banget ya, but i feel happy for it, which is: my 1st pikachu.. 😎✌️️ uda almost three months ga maen, hari ini iseng buka eh nongol si pika yg konon susah banget ditangkep, especially di lippo sini ga bakalan ada punya.. so i am happy! That’s the most important feeling.. 


Hope all things go well for this year. Of course yang paling utama adalah kesehatan dan rejeki yang secukupnya. Supaya my studying lancar jaya sampe last semester. 

Amienn.. 🙏

Cheers,

Blue Yena